🔭 The Present Perspective Newsletter

🔭 Are you searching in the wrong place?

We spend much of life searching for answers. But what if the search itself is pointing us in the wrong direction?

“The reason you want to be better is the reason why you aren’t.”
— Alan Watts

Dear Reader
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There is an old story from Nasreddin about a person searching for their lost keys under a streetlamp at night. A passer-by stops to help and asks, “Where did you lose them?”

“Over there,” the person replies, pointing into the darkness.

The passer-by looks confused. “Then why are you searching here?”

“Because the light is better here.”

We can smile at the absurdity of the story, yet it describes a common human experience. We keep searching where it feels easier, brighter or more familiar, rather than where the truth actually lies.

The answer is always where you least expect it.

It is easy to feel like there is something to ‘get right’ in life. That somewhere ahead there is a goal, an activity, a learning or a state that will finally complete us. Much of the self-help industry quietly rests on this assumption. We move through life believing there is an answer waiting for us somewhere.

There is nothing inherently wrong with this impulse. It is deeply human. The difficulty is that, sooner or later, we discover it never quite works.

We try one idea, attend another workshop, adopt a new practice, listen to the latest teacher, and eventually find ourselves back where we started, still searching for something just out of reach.

The search itself continues, even when the objects of the search change.

The need for an answer never truly resolves because we were never a question to begin with.

Nothing Essential Is Missing

The felt sense of lack, the belief that something must be fixed or added in order for us to be whole, quietly overlooks something fundamental. Our nature, like all of nature, is already complete in its being. A tree does not question whether it is enough. The ocean does not wait to become worthy of being the ocean.

This does not mean we stop growing or evolving. Nature constantly changes and unfolds. Growth continues. Learning continues. Life continues. But alongside this movement is the recognition that, right here and right now, nothing essential is missing. We already possess everything needed to be fully ourselves, and to experience a sense of fullness within this moment.

Bright Lights and Endless Seeking

The bright and mysterious lights of what is often called the spiritual path can be deeply alluring. By spiritual, I simply mean the very human search for meaning, peace and a sense of coming home to ourselves. The language may include chakras, kundalini, saints, angels, visions, auras or astral travel, and it can easily capture the imagination. Without realising it, we may simply transfer our old habit of seeking into a new domain. Now we are trying to achieve something inward or transformative, gain special knowledge, or reach a different experience that will finally make us feel complete.

The mechanism of seeking remains the same. Only the language changes.

Going Against the Stream

Traditionally, mindfulness and meditation are said to go against the stream. Rather than encouraging more searching, they gently interrupt the habit itself. They question the assumption that fulfilment exists somewhere in the future or in a different state of experience.

Instead, they turn us toward the very place we tend to overlook or avoid, perhaps because it feels too ordinary, too quiet, or sometimes even uncomfortable.

That place is the present moment.

You, as you are, right here and right now.

The habit of looking ahead is so strong that we often resist this suggestion. "That can’t be it," the mind says. Surely it must be somewhere else.

Yet as awareness deepens, as attention becomes steady and kind, we begin to encounter ourselves directly. In moments of simple presence, undistracted and openhearted, something subtle becomes clear.

We discover that what we were searching for was never elsewhere.

We are not a question waiting for an answer.

And we are not an answer to be achieved.

We are something simpler, and at the same time far more mysterious. Something alive with depth, immediacy and an innate capacity for love.

We begin to recognise what might be called our original nature.

This is not abstract or distant. It is not located somewhere in time or reserved for special moments.

It is you, here and now.

Do you feel it?

Can you hear it?

You will, as you begin to pay attention. Which is another way of saying, as you begin to be mindful.

Resting in What Is Already Here

Perhaps nothing new needs to be added to your life in this moment.
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Perhaps what is needed is simply the willingness to stop searching elsewhere and rest, even briefly, in what is already here.
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Beneath the noise of striving and becoming, there is a quiet completeness that has never left you.
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Each moment you pause and pay attention, you come back into relationship with it.

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​Friday, 29 May – Wednesday 3 June 2026​

A carefully curated six‑day immersion in mindfulness, movement and mountain landscapes—designed for people who value depth, structure and intentional practice.

Limited to 10 participants, this programme blends our grounded, nature‑based style with a refined flow inspired by Queenstown’s majestic mountains and beautiful Lake Wakatipu.

This exclusive retreat, led by two highly-experienced teachers is for those who value nature, simplicity and evidence‑based mindfulness practices, and who appreciate an intentional, well‑paced journey of transformation.

This retreat includes...

• Daily meditation and mindfulness practice
• Guided mountain and lakeside walks
• Gentle movement and breathwork
• Periods of nourishing silence
• Relaxing spa pool available all day and night
• Community connection and shared meals
• Personalised individual interview with one teacher
• Time for rest, reflection and integration
• Incredible stargazing when conditions are right
• Detoxifying sauna

This is an invitation to slow down, breathe and pay attention—not in a forced way but in a way that brings you home to yourself.

The Location: Ora Retreat, Queenstown

Ora Retreat is a boutique mountain home overlooking Lake Wakatipu —peaceful, welcoming and surrounded by forested hills and alpine views. Guests consistently praise its warmth, comfort and the sense of being “at home” in nature.

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Teachers: Kovido Maddick and Eric Chagnon
​Location: Ora Retreat, 26 Arawata Terrace, Sunshine Bay, Queenstown, New Zealand
​Dates: Friday, 29 May – Wednesday, 3 June 2026​
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💗 Awakening to Self-Love — 6-Day Silent Meditation Retreat, Bowral, NSW:
7–12 March, 2026​

Allow the beautiful and serene natural environment and meditation support your wellbeing as you are invited into a simple schedule that includes regular silent sitting and walking mindfulness meditations, instruction periods and check-ins with the teachers.
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Teachers: Karl Baker and Stephen Archer
​Location: Hartzer Park Retreat Centre, Bowral, NSW
​Dates: Saturday, 7 March – Thursday, 12 March 2026
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The Essence of Self-Love Retreats at Sangsurya, Byron Bay are the premium retreat offerings of 2026.
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These retreats feature incredible artisan accommodation, a stunning retreat centre setting and an on-site chef, Todd Stream-Cameron providing world-class meals.
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Teachers: Karl Baker and Stephen Archer
​Location: Sangsurya Retreat Centre, Byron Bay, NSW
​Dates:
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Teacher: Karl Baker
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🧘‍♀️ Mini Mindfulness Exercise: Resting in What Is Already Here

Duration: 5–10 minutes

Step 1 — Arriving​
Sit comfortably, either in a chair or standing if you prefer. Let the body settle naturally. Notice that breathing is already happening without effort.

Step 2 — Feeling Supported​
Bring attention to the points of contact between your body and the chair or the ground. Sense the support beneath you. Allow yourself to be held by this moment.

Step 3 — Opening Awareness​
Gently notice what is here right now:
the breath moving,
sounds coming and going,
sensations in the body.

Let everything be just as it is.

Step 4 — Noticing the Mind​
If thoughts arise or the mind begins planning or searching, simply notice this kindly. Nothing has gone wrong. Let thoughts pass in their own time.

Step 5 — Resting​
Quietly ask yourself: "What is already here right now?"
There is no need to find an answer. Just rest in noticing.

Step 6 — Returning​
Before finishing, recognise that nothing new was added in this practice. You simply paused and noticed what was already present.

When you are ready, gently return to your day, carrying this awareness with you.

Purpose:​
This practice offers a chance to pause the habit of searching and gently experience the sense of completeness that is already present in this moment.

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Why this reflection matters

We often assume fulfilment comes from changing something in our lives. Yet many moments of ease appear quietly, in ordinary experiences we might overlook. Taking a moment to notice when you already feel a sense of enoughness helps train attention toward what supports wellbeing naturally. Over time, recognising these moments can shift life from something we are constantly trying to complete, into something we are learning to fully inhabit.

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