🦺 Feeling safe enough to awaken


Feeling Safe Enough to Awaken

"When we experience stress, the nervous system tries to control things. Part of waking up is discovering what we are beyond that controlling organism." — Tara Brach

Dear Reader

The Power of a Regulated Nervous System

I am convinced that those times in our life where we feel open-hearted, spacious, grounded and have a sense of presence are simply the result of a regulated nervous system.

What may mysteriously be described as "enlightenment" or in modern psychological terms "self-actualisation", what we refer to as a peak experience is a deep state of true relaxation and regulation— where we feel no threat at all.

At these times our relationship with our self, our mind and our experience drastically shifts. Instead of being slightly (or a lot) on guard, instead of needing to work things out, change things—ourselves or others, or make things happen—we sit back into a sense of openness.

The State of No Problem

Very simply, we feel our feet on the ground, the gentle breeze against our skin. We notice the sound of the birds, the heat of the sun. In our belly and in our body, we feel an inner, dynamic warmth. In our mind or awareness there is settledness, clarity and expansiveness.

Nothing feels like a problem and there is nowhere to go, nothing to sort out and nothing to fix.
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We feel 100% safe and because we are safe, we can open ourselves out. Our nervous system, our emotional and physical bodies, and we could even say life itself, is wired for connection. When we open up and connect in this way, the distress of our thinking mind abates. We feel held, intimate with both our own experience and everything in it.

The Covering Up of Our Natural State

It as though the everyday stress 'doing' has covered up our capacity to be and to feel. When this is interrupted and we have a chance to breathe, we deepen. As we deepen into this relaxation, insights, wisdom and healing occur. What was hidden is revealed, what was hurting is felt. We receive new and fresh information from our body, from our psyche, from our experience and from life itself.

The Emergence of Inner Wisdom

The wisdom that is within us, that still silent voice within makes itself known and heard. The holding space that is created with this regulation—the connected, intimate and expansive mind and heart—creates room for everything. This allows the insights to be realised, the wisdom to emerge and the healing to take place.

I feel this is why so many spiritual traditions refer to enlightenment or awakening as being entirely natural to us. That it is our birthright; that there is nothing you need to do to get it and that it's not in any way special or related to being worthy or good enough.

Our Inherent Capacity for Connection

In modern terms we could say that being truly relaxed and regulated is natural to us. We are built that way. To feel deeply, to be connected, to experience an intimate love with ourselves and our environment and experience is hardwired into us. We just need to feel safe enough, without threat long enough, for it to emerge.

The Role of Patience, Practice and Retreats

This emergence always occurs if we are patient enough. Retreat environments provide the perfect opportunity for this. The structure, practice, context and setting have been proven over 2,500 years to provide a deeply safe environment for our natural self-regulation to occur, for us to open up, deepen and connect to our immediate experience.

The Invitation to Freedom

Mindfulness meditation really is a ticket to freedom, a journey of authentic connection and love. Be patient with yourself, trust your experience. If you feel drawn to experience a deeper feeling of regulation and relaxation—to open the door to insight, wisdom and healing—I invite you to consider attending a silent meditation retreat. Either one offered by Mindfulness Works or other teachers you feel aligned with.

Trusting Your True Nature

Your true nature—your capacity for openness, connection, love and regulation will not let you down. It's right there waiting for you, for when you are ready to allow it to emerge.


This Week's Mindfulness Plus Online and Live Workshops

​Wired Differently: Mindfulness for Neurodivergent Minds: Wednesday, 5 March 6.30pm AEDT

Embrace a mindfulness practice that honours and reflects your unique way of experiencing the world.

Facilitator: Sabina
​Price: $20

Click "BOOK NOW" to see all details and book any workshop.
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​I can't F***ing Meditate: Thursday, 6 March 6.30pm AEDT

Meditation and mindfulness for people who think they can't meditate.

Facilitator: Kovido Maddick
​Price: $20 (standard ticket). $35 (VIP ticket, includes recording).

Click "BOOK NOW" to see all details and book any workshop.
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​Awakening to Self-Love 6 Day Silent Meditation Retreat, Healesville: Fri 3 Oct – Wed 8 Oct 2025​

This silent meditation retreat, led by two of Australasia’s leading meditation and mindfulness teachers, focuses on our inherent ability to experience self-love and inner healing.

Allow the beautiful and serene natural retreat environment and meditation sessions to support your wellbeing, as you are invited into a simple schedule that includes regular guided sitting and walking mindfulness meditations, instruction periods and check-ins with the teachers.

Price: $1,899 (all inclusive)
​Teachers: Stephen Archer and Karl Baker
​Dares: Fri 3 Oct. – Wed 8 Oct.
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​The Ease of Being — 3 Day Luxury Meditation Retreat, Noosa North Shore:
Friday, 18 July – Sunday, 20 July 2025
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Life moves fast—too fast. The constant demands, the pressure to perform, and the relentless pace can leave us feeling depleted, disconnected, and exhausted.

When was the last time you truly stopped, breathed, and let yourself simply be?

This exclusive, premium 3-day meditation retreat offers a rare opportunity to step away from the noise and into a world of effortless relaxation, deep presence, and quiet luxury.

Set against the pristine beauty of Noosa North Shore, you’ll experience:

✨ 5-star accommodation in a breathtaking natural setting

✨ Exquisite, chef-prepared vegetarian cuisine to nourish body and mind

✨ A curated meditation program, designed to reconnect you with your inherent ease and OKness

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​Price: $899 - $999 (all inclusive)
​Teacher: Karl Baker
​Dares: Friday, 18 July – Sunday, 20 July
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In-Person Intro to Mindfulness Courses and Workshops

Reduce anxiety, improve sleep and increase self-acceptance with mindfulness.
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These Intro to Mindfulness and Meditation courses and workshops are designed for absolute beginners and are offered by certified Mindfulness Works mindfulness teachers.

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Victoria

​Ballarat – 19 March​

​Seabrook – 1 March​

​Shepparton – 1 March​

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Queensland

​Kalinga – 7 May​

​Yeronga – 18 March​

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Karl Baker - Mindfulness Works

I offer guidance on mindfulness & meditation. Founder of Mindfulness Works. Over 40,000 people have completed my Introduction to Mindfulness & Meditation course.

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