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🤯 If You’re Stuck in Your Head: A Different Way Through

There are moments when the mind just won’t stop.

It circles, speeds up, tries to solve everything at once.

And the harder we push, the more stuck we seem to become.

There is a different way to meet this.

“Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.” — Dr. Seuss
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Dear Reader

Overthinking Feeds Itself

Overthinking causes more overthinking. You may have noticed this already. We can’t think our way out of it. In fact, trying to do so often makes it worse, leading to more stress and, quite often, a headache.

There is a clear biological reason for this.

When the Nervous System Takes Over

Overthinking is closely linked to nervous system dysregulation. When we feel under threat, the body shifts into a fight, flight or freeze response. Muscles tighten, the heart rate increases and adrenaline rises.

Mentally, this state ramps everything up. Thoughts speed up. They become more urgent, more repetitive, and often more extreme. Before long, we can find ourselves caught in a stream of abstract thinking, frequently based on shaky assumptions and often imagining worst-case scenarios.

From a survival perspective, this makes sense. If our life were genuinely at risk, thinking quickly and anticipating danger could help protect us.

But there is a cost when the threat isn’t actually life or death, or when we remain in this heightened state long after the moment has passed.

The Trap of the Thinking Mind

When we are caught in overthinking, we lose touch with what is actually here. The body, the breath, and the present moment fade into the background. Instead, we inhabit a kind of mental simulation that can feel very real and very confining.

The mind often insists that the solution is to think more. It creates a sense of urgency: keep going, figure it out, don’t stop now.

And yet, the more we follow that instruction, the worse we tend to feel.

The First Shift: Noticing

Mindfulness offers a way out of this loop.

The first step is simple but not always easy: recognising that we are caught in thinking. Without this awareness, we are completely inside the experience, with no space to respond differently.

When we do notice, something shifts. We are no longer fully entangled. There is a small gap, and within that gap is choice.

Regulating Before Solving

At this point, the most helpful move is not to solve the problem, but to regulate the system.

Anything that supports a sense of safety can help settle the nervous system. For example:

• Box breathing
• Going for a walk, without music or a podcast
• Lengthening your breathing exhale (for example, breathing in for 4 and out for 6)
• Feeling your feet on the ground and gently pressing them into the floor
• Placing a hand on your chest or belly and staying with the sensation of touch

These may seem too simple, especially when the mind is insisting that something urgent needs to be figured out.

This is where a degree of trust is required. The mind may push back strongly, telling us to keep thinking. But if we can hold steady and stay with a regulating activity, the system begins to shift.

Returning to the Body

As the nervous system settles, the intensity of the thinking softens.

We begin to come back into the body. We might notice the movement of the breath in the chest, the feeling of our feet on the ground, or the sounds around us. There can be a growing sense of steadiness and ease.

From here, the whole system starts to relax.

When Thinking Becomes Useful Again

Interestingly, as we settle, different parts of the brain come online. The more creative and integrative aspects of thinking become available again.

From this place, we may find that insight arises naturally. We can see the bigger picture. There is more balance, more perspective.

Thinking, in this state works for us rather than against us. It becomes responsive rather than reactive. There is space within it, rather than pressure.

Practice Makes This Accessible

With practice, this process becomes more familiar.

The benefits are clear: a sense of agency, greater calm and relief from the cycle of overthinking. These experiences reinforce the shift, making it more likely we will return to it again.

Over time, this way of responding becomes more accessible. The tools are closer at hand. And the pull of overthinking begins to lose some of its grip.

​Your Senses and Mindfulness — Calm is Closer Than You Think — Mindfulness Plus Workshop​

Feeling overwhelmed, wired, or struggling to focus? Your senses may hold the key. Most of us are familiar with the five senses, but the body actually has eight sensory systems that continuously influence how calm, alert or stressed we feel.
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​In this workshop, Occupational Therapist and Certified Mindfulness Teacher, Deb Lacey introduces sensory modulation—a practical and accessible way to understand how your nervous system responds to sensory input, and how to work with it more effectively.

You’ll learn how different people have unique sensory preferences, and how specific inputs can either settle your system or help you feel more engaged and focused.
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This approach can be especially helpful if you experience stress, difficulty concentrating, ADHD or other forms of neurodivergence, or sensory and emotional overload.

Deb will guide you through simple, practical ways to use sensory input intentionally—from movement and pressure to sound and visual environments—along with sensory-based mindfulness techniques to help you reset, regulate and feel more grounded in everyday life.

• Understand how your nervous system responds to sensory input, and why you feel the way you do in different environments:
• Learn simple, practical tools to reduce stress and feel calmer more consistently.
• Improve focus and mental clarity by working with your natural sensory preferences.
• Build greater self-awareness and confidence in managing overwhelm in everyday life.

Workshop: Your Senses and Mindfulness — Calm is Closer Than You Think
​Date and Time: Tuesday, 24 March — 6.30pm–7.30pm AEDT (Sydney/Melbourne Time)
​Facilitator: Deb Lacey (Occupational Therapist and Certified Mindfulness Teacher)
​Price: $20 Standard Ticket. $35 VIP Ticket (includes recording).
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​Bookings and more information: https://mindfulnessworksaustralia.com.au/learn-mindfulness/mindfulness-plus/​
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​Queenstown, New Zealand, 6-Day Meditation and Mindfulness Retreat — Small Group Immersion in Mountain Surroundings​
​29 May – 3 June, 2026​

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This exclusive retreat, led by two highly-experienced teachers is for those who value nature, simplicity and evidence‑based mindfulness practices, and who appreciate an intentional, well‑paced journey of transformation.

This retreat includes...

• Daily meditation and mindfulness practice
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• Gentle movement and breathwork
• Periods of nourishing silence
• Relaxing spa pool available all day and night
• Community connection and shared meals
• Personalised individual interview with one teacher
• Time for rest, reflection and integration
• Incredible stargazing when conditions are right
• Detoxifying sauna

This is an invitation to slow down, breathe and pay attention—not in a forced way but in a way that brings you home to yourself.

The Location: Ora Retreat, Queenstown

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Teachers: Kovido Maddick and Eric Chagnon
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​Get one on one, private Mindfulness Coaching​

One on one work with a certified mindfulness teacher can assist with anxiety reduction, improving sleep, reducing over-thinking, improving relationships and making mindfulness a habit in your life.
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🧘‍♀️ Mini Mindfulness Exercise: Stepping Out of the Thinking Loop

Duration: 10 minutes

Instructions:

Find a comfortable seated or standing position.

1. Acknowledge (1–2 minutes) Gently notice what is happening in the mind. You might silently say: “Thinking is happening” or “I’m caught in a loop.” There is no need to analyse the content. Simply recognise the pattern.
2. Shift to the Body (2–3 minutes) Bring your attention to your feet. Feel the contact with the ground. If helpful, gently press your feet down and notice the response in your legs and body.
3. Regulate the Breath (3–4 minutes) Begin to slightly lengthen your exhale. For example, inhale for 4, exhale for 6. No force. Just a gentle extension. Let the breath be felt in the body rather than controlled by the mind.
4. Add Support (2–3 minutes) Place a hand on your chest or belly. Feel the warmth and pressure of your hand. Let your attention rest here. If the mind pulls you back into thinking, that’s fine. Simply notice, and return again to the body, the breath, or the hand.
5. Open Awareness (1–2 minutes) Allow your awareness to widen slightly. Notice sounds around you. Notice space. Notice that you are here, not inside the problem.

Let the practice end without rushing. You may find the thinking has softened, or you may simply feel a little more space. Both are valid.

Purpose:​
This practice is designed to help you directly experience the shift from mental overactivity into embodied presence. Rather than trying to stop thinking, it gently redirects attention to regulation and safety, allowing the nervous system to settle and the thinking mind to soften naturally.

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Why this reflection matters

Most of us don’t realise we’re overthinking until we’re already deep in it. At that point, it can feel convincing, urgent, and hard to step away from.

This reflection matters because it offers a different way of responding. Instead of trying to think our way out, it points us back to something more reliable—the body, the breath, and a sense of safety in the present moment.

Over time, this changes our relationship with thinking itself. We begin to see that not every thought needs to be followed, and not every problem needs to be solved immediately. That alone can bring a surprising amount of relief.

The shift is subtle but powerful. It gives us back a sense of choice.

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