🔭 The Present Perspective Newsletter

🏃‍➡️What are you rushing towards?

Most of us do not consciously choose to rush through life. We simply become caught in its momentum, moving from one task, plan or distraction to the next.

But when we stop, even briefly, something important can come into view: the life we are actually living, what genuinely matters to us and whether the two are aligned.

“We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we only have one.” ― Confucius

Dear Reader

We can spend much of our lives rushing along the surface, spinning our wheels or trying hard to reach some future destination. There is always something to do or somewhere to be. Even our downtime can become another project, filled with plans for travel, entertainment or self-improvement.

Given the momentum of our lives, it can be difficult to pause, let alone come to a complete stop. We may fear that if we stop, we will drop the ball, miss out on something or create more work for ourselves by not dealing with it now.

Often, there is also an undercurrent of agitation beneath our need to keep moving. This agitation can make genuine rest uncomfortable. Part of us knows that stopping may involve encountering what we have been keeping at bay by rushing through our lives.

Death can be a powerful reminder that life does not need to be lived this way. It shows us that there are more important things than always being busy, entertained, productive or occupied.

No matter how much effort we put into getting somewhere, how much pleasure or entertainment we experience, how much money we make, or how much success or failure we encounter, our lives eventually come to an end.

This raises a simple but important question: "What really matters to you?"

What is your life about? What is of genuine value?

The answer will be different for each of us, and it may change over time. The value of asking these questions is that they help us bring the way we are living into closer alignment with what matters most.

When we do this, life develops a certain groundedness and vitality. We are no longer painting by numbers or simply going through the motions. We become less preoccupied with future experiences and less likely to lose ourselves in constant activity.

Our life, just as it is right now, begins to feel like its own reward. There is nowhere else we need to get to because, in a very real sense, we are already here. Much of what is most important to us may already be present. We simply need to slow down enough to recognise it.

Meditation is one way of doing this. It asks us to stop, at least physically. Over time, as the body becomes still, the life we are living comes more clearly into view. Gradually, the mind may begin to settle as well.

We notice the tone and texture of our lives. We feel the beat of the heart and the movement of the breath. We become more aware of our effect on other people and their effect on us.

When we are present, we have access to far more information than when we are constantly living in an imagined future. Perhaps the most important information is a growing sense of what genuinely supports our wellbeing and what does not.

As this becomes clearer, we can begin to adjust how we live, not through force or rigid self-improvement, but with greater sensitivity and grace. We can make room for more wellbeing, more ease and more genuine relaxation.

We also begin to notice how good it feels to slow down and be present. As a result, the compulsion to remain busy, distracted or constantly entertained begins to loosen.

We discover that stopping does not mean that life has stopped. It is often when we stop rushing that life comes most fully into view.

💗 BEING LOVE – Half-day online meditation retreat. Sunday, 9 August
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You were born whole and worthy of love...

This half-day retreat is devoted to the direct experience of unconditional love, radical self-acceptance and our inherent wholeness.

Rather than treating self-love as something else we need to accomplish, we will explore what happens when we stop striving and allow ourselves to be exactly as we are.

Our approach will be gentle, spacious and grounded in meditation. The emphasis will be on allowance and acceptance, letting go and letting be.
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We will trust our own experience and create the conditions in which love, tenderness and inner wisdom can naturally emerge.
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​Benefits of Attending This Retreat

• A deeper understanding of what it means to offer yourself unconditional love
• A renewed sense of being whole, complete and worthy of love
• Greater freedom from the belief that you need to fix, improve or prove yourself
• The relaxation and nervous system regulation that arises when we pause and practise meditation
• Greater trust in your own inner teacher and lived experience.

"I enjoyed the quiet, not having to introduce ourselves, just being spacious. It was a restful morning and I felt rejuvenated afterwards." — Erica Marshall

Teacher: Karl Baker
​Location: Online (live option only—not recorded)
​Date: Sunday, 9 August. (1.00pm–4.00pm AEST)
​Price: $49

💗 Awakening to Self-Love
6-Day Silent Meditation Retreat, ​Healesville ​Victoria. ​3 October – 8 October, 2026​
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Only 13 places left.

The essence of your self-love is woven into the fabric of the universe.

It is integral to you. It just requires the right environment to emerge.

The Awakening to Self-Love, Silent Meditation Retreat provides that environment.

“It was like a balm for the soul.” — Carmel Brock

“I loved the silence, the meditative rhythm of the day and the beautiful food. A perfect environment to go deeply within and touch the universal energy of love while doing important inner work.” — Dr Lisa Shortridge

“I loved the retreat, the silence was great… Stephen and Karl are very down to earth, knowledgeable and surprisingly funny. 😊 I found the whole experience very humbling, calming, restful, informative and soul fulfilling.” — Belinda Dubojski

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​Teachers: Karl Baker and Stephen Archer
​Location: Maitripa Retreat Centre, Healesville
​Dates: Saturday, 3 October – Thursday, 8 October 2026
​Price: $1,950 all inclusive. Book now with a $500 deposit (non-refundable)

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🧘‍♀️ Mini Mindfulness Exercise: Your Life is Already Here (5 minutes)

The Life Already Here

Suggested duration: 5 minutes

1. Physically stop — 1 minute​
Sit comfortably and allow your body to become still. Notice any urge to move, check something or get on with the next task. There is no need to resist the urge. Simply recognise it.

2. Feel that you are here — 1 minute​
Notice the movement of your breathing, the weight of your body and the sounds around you. Let yourself experience this moment without trying to improve it.

3. Notice the tone of your life — 1 minute​
Gently sense how life feels at present. Rushed, spacious, heavy, satisfying, unsettled or something else? Allow the answer to arise through feeling rather than analysis.

4. Remember what matters — 1 minute​
Ask quietly:
​"What matters most to me at this point in my life?"

There is no need to force an answer.

5. Choose one small alignment — 1 minute​
Consider one small action that would bring today into closer alignment with what matters. It may involve doing something, not doing something or simply giving someone your full attention.

Why this reflection matters

Busyness can keep us responding automatically to whatever appears most urgent. This practice creates enough space to notice how we are actually living and whether it reflects what we value. The aim is not to reorganise your entire life, but to let one small choice come from greater clarity.

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Why noticing this helps

Slowing down does not always require a dramatic lifestyle change. Sometimes it begins by recognising the particular habit, pressure or belief that keeps us moving. Once we see what would genuinely help, we can create one small opening rather than waiting for life itself to become less busy.

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